Men Need Sex.

Men need sex to feel affection and love. Women need to feel heard and cared for in order to feel affection and love. Without that connection women stop wanting sex. Without sex men stop wanting connection.

The secret is to find someone who engages you deeply, to form a connection that goes further than desire and lust. Its not enough to cover only face or a body, true chemistry begin with intellect and heart.

Instead of reading this and arguing whether its right or wrong. Read it with the idea of understanding the differences between men and women: we have different ways of needing to feel loved. Men need physical intimacy to feel loved and women need emotional intimacy to feel loved. Of course men and women need both, but masculine and feminine energy are different and have different priorities and ways of expression. Its learning how to balance those differences and those energies that allow a man and woman to meet each others needs. The problem is, who goes first? Are we trying to meet our partners needs or are we trying to get them to put our needs first? If you look at it the same way as “who’s turn is it to wash the dishes” then you’re making it a chore or obligation to make your partner feel loved. Step up, show love, be the best partner that you know how to be. Be patient, be understanding when your partner is struggling or having a difficult day and may need more affection and reassurance from you. Give love without expectations because love is not a negotiation, its a gift that you give and receive freely. Real love is being in service to the other, thats how trust and consistency are developed. The greater the connection, the deeper the love, the more satisfying the relationship, the happier that you both will be. Make each other feel important, make each other feel loved.

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